I just realized that none of the comments or posts I made in the last week from my instance are getting to lemmy.world.

I went to see if I my instance was defederated. No, still showing as connected.

I then went to see if I got blocked or banned. Nope, my username is not showing up in the modlog anywhere.

Is it because my instance is small? I guess not, because I can interact with people and communities from anywhere else just fine.

At the moment, the only plausible explanation I have is that lemmy.world is overwhelmed and dropping messages from smaller instances. They do however everything in their power to keep more users coming up.

Yeah, I get that they were being attacked. I can only imagine that getting DDOS’d is not fun, and worrying about the Schmoes on the smaller instances is not a top concern.

But even in the middle of these constant outages and attacks, the lemmy.world admins are still keeping registrations open? Why? Wouldn’t it be better if they encouraged the users to move out of the instance to reduce the load? Isn’t the whole point of decentralized technologies to be, you know, decentralized?

I shouldn’t have to come here, create an account and make things even more centralized just so that I can tell people that this attitude is hurting the fediverse.

I wouldn’t be so pissed at this if it weren’t for the fact that some many communities were created here and is making this particular instance a crucial part of the fediverse, but the admins seems to be more worried about getting their user count up than the health of the overall system.

Please, admins, the more you go with this unstable federation and open registrations, the more of an incentive you are creating to centralize this further here. Help the fediverse and help yourselves. Close down registrations and focus on ensuring that everyone can access the communities that are being formed here.

  • ohmyiv@lemmy.worldEnglish
    6·
    2 years ago

    So you made up the issues about dropped comments just to complain. You didn’t actually discuss directly to the admins, you just made a post on your instance hoping that an admin from here would see it.

    Again, why did you not contact the admins directly before ranting like a madman in this post?

    Again, about the dropped comments, WHICH YOU STATED THIS POST WAS ORIGINALLY ABOUT, did you reach out to the devs? Did you ask anyone else? Nah, you just made stuff up and came here to troll and cry. After somebody pointed out a possible solution to your original issue, you pivoted and started rampaging for no reason.

    I don’t care about your instance. I’m not trying to dox you. But the way you’re acting and your responses show that you are unable to be an adult or that you run an instance. Your inability to handle this in an adult manner is the reason why nobody supports you.

    Try being mature about things. If you can’t, maybe go back to your instance for a while. Leave everyone here alone. Stop making things harder for everyone, including yourself. I know you want to be the victim and savior in all this mess, but you’re winning no favors with how you are acting.

    • youarehurtingthefediverse@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
      15·
      2 years ago

      WHICH YOU STATED THIS POST WAS ORIGINALLY ABOUT.

      Let me repeat. My instance not being to communicate with this is a symptom of a much larger issue: lemmy.world is growing in an unsustainable and irresponsible way, and this is bringing systemic risks to the system as a whole.

      So, no, the post is not about “dropped comments”. The post is hopefully a wake-up call to tell you that this attitude of “let’s keep bringing users no matter what” is cancerous.

      And yes, I did say something to that before in previous interactions, and the response was not that different from this post: a myopic defensiveness, perhaps based on their personal belief that what they are doing is good/ethical, even when others are crying out “this way will bring us all to chaos”.

        • youarehurtingthefediverse@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
          13·
          2 years ago

          If they support you, then come together as a group and address the admins

          Honest question: how many different admins do you think it would take for you to consider changing your mind about it?

          since you say you contacted the admins directly, post the proof,

          If I post any proof, I’d be doxxing myself and it should be clear by now that I won’t do that. The last time I said “hey, maybe you should slow down growth”, I was met with the implication that I was saying that out of personal interest.

          So, no. I will not let the admins try to deflect from their irresponsible attitude by trying to make some character assassination.