• BooBees@fedinsfw.app
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    21 days ago

    How about we just don’t suck the dicks of authoritarian wannabe dipshits that have proven they can’t secure any information properly and can’t run any institution properly?

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      21 days ago

      I don’t know exactly what you mean, I just think for age gating there’s ways that are a lot better

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        21 days ago

        Like parents actually parenting and activating the built in restrictions for their children’s devices?

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          20 days ago

          The whole credit card system worked until pron websites gave you stuff for free. The average kid couldn’t acquire a credit card without being caught.

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          21 days ago

          It’s probably more effective done at the other end. It’s not like you can make parents parent

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            21 days ago

            You actually can, it’s called regulations, policies and enforcement. Don’t vaccinate your crotch fruit? Cool, they can’t go to public school, and you just won a visit from child welfare

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              21 days ago

              It’s not like we don’t have regulations, policies and (some) enforcement. But there’s still dogshit parents. And for this kind of thing, how would you even enforce it?

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                20 days ago

                Why do we need to? What’s the risk, some unsupervised kid with neglectful parents might see porn? Oh man, just imagine the world-ending consequences if that happened!

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                  I was thinking gambling but porn is illegal to buy for under 18-yo in some places so they might use the age gating for that too

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                    20 days ago

                    That feels an even sillier concern; what is a child going to do on a gambling site without some adult payment method to access services? And if you say “well they can steal their parent’s credit card,” how would that not equally apply to a parent’s photo ID or anything else necessary for age-verification?

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        21 days ago

        That’s the issue. We don’t need nanny’s to age gate us on the internet. All it does is create a very short path to removing anonymity on the internet

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          21 days ago

          Don’t mind some age gating tbh. It would have to be pretty convenient and anonymous though.

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          20 days ago

          Should supermarkets just sell alcohol to 10 year olds?

          I think there are plenty of places where age gating makes sense as a concept, it really is mainly the data security that’s an issue. The other is that it should be somewhat circumventable, which I think mainly requires it not being tied to identity (so much like you could get someone older to buy you alcohol you could get someone else to verify your age).

          What I think is bad is age gating social media instead of doing something about how harmful it is because clearly adults are not immune and all that does is make it harder for children to get important information.

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            I’m not talking about that… I agree that you can’t sell alcohol, or cigars, or anything like tat, to children.

            But there’s a difference between that and online content.

            I didn’t said age gating was bad in alll contexts, but that age gating information, media and content is bad.

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            21 days ago

            Yeah, that’s why you monitor what the kids you’re responsible for are doing on the internet. It’s trivial to setup parental controls on a network.

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            Hell naw, that’s an arbitrary take. There’s no “child things” or “adult things”, nor “male things” or “female things”, just things, and the “male”/“female”/“child”/“adult” is an arbitary tag we put on them.

            And even if there are some things that aren’t so good for the child to see, the only correct way to address that is educating them, guiding them, listening to them and, over all, treating them as humans, the “we need to block this to children” is totally adultist.

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              And even if there are some things that aren’t so good for the child to see

              That’s what people mean by “not all stuff is for kids”

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                No, “not all stuff is for kids” means “kids should never watch this”, and what I’m saying is “kids can see this with the appropiate tutoring and supervision”, these are two really distinct things.

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                  I think it’s more “we should try to get kids see less of this”, nobody thinks laws about age restrictions gets them all, that’s just unrealistic

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        21 days ago

        I think no ASL covers it for the Internet. Going against the most basic rule is kind of ridiculous.

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          If it’s going to be implemented imo it’s better to do with a privacy respecting centralized fashion than sending your id pics all over the place

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              You can protect the identity and all other info of the person than if they’re over 18 or not. I think that’s a lot better than the other ways sites are now using.

              Unless you think it of just as bad because a site knowing if you’re 18+ is a violation of privacy, so might as well give them everything haha

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                Your arguing for the elimination of privacy as a solution to privacy.

                You are naive if you think this is anything other than a demand from advertisers to ensure it is human being advertised to and not a bot.

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                  I don’t think you understand the situation. They’re already doing the id verification. They’re not going to stop with that. I’d much prefer telling a site I’m 18+ than having to send in photos of my id to every random website out there. 🤷‍♂️

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                    21 days ago

                    They are not going to stop it with people like you rolling over. Pathetic, but I guess you can pretend there is a silver lining.

                    Oh wait, that silver lining is apparently you bending over, dropping trow, spreading those cheeks and shouting, “is that wide enough!”