• ickplant@lemmy.worldOP
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    5 days ago

    I’m AuDHD too. It can be difficult to say the least.

    This is from my assessment training manual:

    "The AuDHD profile is defined by competing neurological needs that can create significant internal conflict. Key contradictions include:

    • The need for routine and predictability (autism) in conflict with the need for novelty and stimulation (ADHD).
    • Social exhaustion and sensory overwhelm (autism) in conflict with loneliness and desire for connection.
    • Perfectionism and high standards (autism) in conflict with procrastination, task initiation failure, and inconsistency (ADHD).
    • Deep, sustained special interest focus (autism) interrupted by ADHD-driven distractibility and difficulty sustaining attention on non-preferred aspects of those same interests."
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      5 days ago

      Damn, here I was thinking I was neurotypical and it turns out I may be the bastard child of autism and ADHD. What a plot twist.

    • Sentient_Door_Hinge@discuss.tchncs.de
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      I feel like this isn’t a real thing. What you described is how I feel and how I would describe the vast majority of the people I know. The people that I wouldn’t say fit these behaviors I would consider clearly have some other mental disorder.

      Maybe I’m in a bubble of people like me? Idk it just seems like the default behavior…

    • groucho@retrolemmy.com
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      Yup. Tiny projects that finish fast for autism, long-term projects with digressions for the ADHD. Permission to go weird occasionally and do a deep dive on something novel for both.