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    6 months ago

    Yeah overall I agree, brain stuff ist complicated and all boxes we draw there are simplifications anyway.

    Maybe I’m wrong but I thought of people with more stable and rigid habits/obsessive interests/hyperfixations to be on the more autistic side of the spectrum, and more random/oscillating patterns to be more on the ADHD side.

    My hyperfocus period is usually between days and months, where I learn everything about something and then I don’t care anymore.

    Never had this with food or cooking though. Like, of course there are dishes I love to eat regularly, but there is no dish ever I’d like to eat every day for weeks. I know I’d hate it after week 1 already.








  • This.

    I grew out of video gaming the moment I started to realize that games are a manufactured irreality where nothing you do really matters, because once you quit the game you gained nothing in life, it is a well engineered time sink.

    Since my time became a scarce resource and I started to value it, only a rare unique mind twisting puzzle game or short experimental experience might be worth my time, but I will not touch games that eat hundreds of hours of your life for well, nothing at all.

    Also, when I was young and had almost no friends, games were a refuge and distraction, now I don’t need them. If at all, now I’d rather play a board game with other people, because it’s wholesome real world interactions and social fun.




  • I know it’s overkill, I just was tired of keeping it wet after the seeds sprout, now it is self-watering.

    My next experiment will be using tiny dessert cups, put some holes and leca in them, and try making a DIY soilless self-watering seedling nursery from which I can easily transplant into a larger hydro setup.

    Kind of unhappy with jiffy-style coco coir pellets and hydro combo, it’s ugly and I get the coco leaking into the leca. And removing the net around it is always a bit dangerous while keeping it makes it more difficult for the plant.

    But I digress. I’m just starting out with passive hydro and I had a bunch of things I wanted to (re)use and not invest hundreds into possibly useless equip (like special hydro propagators) that only wins on the aesthetics…




  • Yeah, I’m also more on the time blindness overcompensation club.

    If I have no time fixed, minutes stretch into hours.

    If I have some fixed time scheduled, I live by the clock and will rather be way too early than a little to late.

    I have to trick my non ADHD wife to be on time, because if there’s a schedule, I’m the master time keeper.

    Being late is just way more stressful and I hate rushing and the anxiety of being too late to the train or some doctor or whatever.

    My coping mechanism is to have the anxiety way earlier than other people. Everyone believes I’m amazingly organized.


  • I think about Reddit-style platforms being the centralized bulletin boards and forums of these days, and Lemmy is closest we have to a DIY kind of thing which is controlled by the community.

    Back in the day only a sufficiently tech savvy person could set up and run a forum software. Now everyone can do it, and with the Fediverse it’s all nicely interconnected, interoperable and truly free and open.

    In general the Fediverse is the best shot we got right now to get back to the non-corporate Internet of my childhood and youth, I really hope it will succeed. And succeeding does not mean that it must grow and outcompete the commercial offerings, I think success is if enough motivated and interesting people join and participate. Quality > quantity.





  • Yeah same, I’ve tried many things but I managed to always justify to myself the purchase to make sure I’m not wasting too much money on stuff that will just use space and be unused. Still happens, but could be much much worse. Some things I come back from time to time, when the hyperfocus cycle brings me back to it, like musical instruments. Some things I only ever get the entry level stuff because I know I will move on way before reaching some stage where I need better equipment…