Would love to have seen OpenPilot form Comma on this list to how it compared.

I could never get hardware accelerated video working with Firefox on my Linux laptop, and Google Meet (used for work) doesn’t work well ( but I guess I blame Google for that).

From the downvotes it seems like many people might be this:

I don’t think that’s a bad extension of the analogy

I want to preface this by saying that I really don’t know anything about Lemmy, but I can see where subscriptions are managed by the subscribers servers in a federated situation: the community’s server might not even know who is subscribed to it since the subscribers server might be responsible for pulling data.

But any individual subscribers server would know about other users on that server that are subscribed to that community

While it’s running, have you checked docker stats to see how much memory/cou the container is using? What’s the host, what’re it’s total resources and what are you using to run the vm?