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  • You’re not being dramatic enough - if you switch your point of view from user to creator. I’ll try to explain my point of view:

    This is a hardware company just learning oppen software at best and there are a lot worse scenarios.

    The homepage is an artificial loop. Correct me if I’m wrong but LAN mode wasn’t even fully functional on rollout.

    They create awesome and exciting machines but that you point a critique of their closed system business practice as “overly dramatic” is interesting.

    From my point of view notions like this will increase the split of the communities even further (makers VS users VS builders).

    This doesn’t have to be a bad thing from my perspective nor is it the fault of Bambu - it’s just that individual people with their own focus will have a vastly different perception of how much intensity (aka drama) is appropriate.


  • What I intended to say is that it’s possible that you do care about their assumptions - more precisely how they behave based on their assumptions.

    Because if that is the case than it could be worth the energy to train social reaction patterns (if that’s possible at all, excuse my lack of knowledge!)

    The more you learn about your own reactions the better you know where to spend the very limited amount of emotional energy every person has - that’s the reason why I brought it up in the first place.

    To put it in another way: assumptions and feelings are very closely related and exploring this connection could be time and energy well spent.

    If you have a close person who knows you well you could ask them this question by the way - at least for me it’s sometimes easier to see patterns for others than within myself!



  • Great answers already!

    Touching another point: when you hear “always” it could be literally about the frequency. Saying “I’m tired not this evening” will be perceived as a complaint when it’s the sixths night in a row for example.

    The social clues are hard to spot I admit: often, “how are you” for example only has very few socially acceptable answers. That depends on your country and social environment though.

    If you have a close friend within that group I recommend just asking them! Showing that you are conscious of their feedback will most likely be very well received.

    I love that you’re learning and listening!

    Good luck, friend :)


  • That point doesn’t matter in these jurisdictions (i.e. Western European ones I am aware of) . Confinement has two reasons and two only: rehabilitation and protection of the public. Revenge doesn’t have a place there. In my opinion rightfully so because the need for revenge is utterly subjective which laws need to avoid.

    For example: I would see it as appropriate to nail this bastard on a wall by his balls. BUT I’m aware that this is mainly due to the publicity he got. How would I standardize ball nailing? How much would a shoplifter get? 1/4 of a testicle for half a day? And what would be the equivalent to criminals without scrotum?

    But jokes aside: revenge can’t take place via public court. And I’m not informed about civil court mechanics in Norway.

    Bonus: human rights apply to every single human. Each of them. And you can’t lose them. If that’s a good idea I’ll leave to each one to decide.


  • I get what you’re saying - from the article and your comment I couldn’t name the group of people that it discrimates against though.

    Perhaps that’s a different legal blah blah but where I’m from you can only discrimate against a protected group of people (race, religion, disability, gender are the ones I am aware of).

    Discrimination would be a tough sell - and a “you’re creating a divide” would likely be met with a “well discuss that with your supervisor, this is a decision based on individual and team circumstances” - which leads then to the issues described in the OP.

    I would be delighted if someone could bring more efficient HR confronting arguments!