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  • If you want something durable it’s best to go with two piece poles rather than three pieces. When poles bend or break it’s always on the bottom piece because it’s the thinnest.

    Unfortunately two piece poles can be hard to find. I’ve been considering getting some MSR poles because it’s a reputable brand and they have a two piece option. I just wish they offered a model with cork handles because I’ve gotten used to cork and will miss it.

    https://cascadedesigns.com/products/dynalock-trail-backcountry-poles

    These are intended for snowshoeing, which makes sense considering the only time I’ve bent a pole it was while snowshoeing. But of course they can be used anywhere and come with regular mud baskets. If you’re looking for maximum durability, these are a good option.







  • There’s a heat wave this weekend near Seattle where I live. Saturday and Sunday have highs around 88 and Monday is like 85. June has a reputation here for being cold and rainy. There’s not a single drop of rain in the forecast this upcoming week or the one after.

    If this summer is anything like the last two, we won’t get a single drop until October.

    I can handle a lot of things. Even the fall of democracy in the USA. Because those horrible things are tangible and solvable. We can always have a revolution. That will suck, but it’s doable.

    Climate change has me in a funk that just won’t quit. Nothing makes me want to give up more than this. This awful hot summer will be the coolest summer for the rest of my life. I can’t deal with something this hopeless.





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    7 months ago

    It’s called negativity bias. It’s an evolved trait passed down from our ancestors. Only the people with anxiety who devoted a lot of conscious thought to unpleasant possibilities lived long enough to reproduce, passing on those tendencies.

    I’m not sure if ADHD has anything to do with it, but it’s possible that there’s even more focus on negativity as a result.





  • I’ve done some reading about CPTSD and it’s… surreal to read about something that so perfectly explains my situation. Autism itself isn’t a disability, but rather it’s CPTSD that does the disabling.

    I’ll have to check out those videos. I appreciate the suggestion.

    While Cyberpunk is indeed not a happy game I still greatly appreciate the maturity, the heavy themes, and the critiques of American society and capitalism. Even the romances are mature and well written.