What do you actually think would happen here? That a friend would text me within, idk, 1 to 4 hours of his mom dying? I think he’s got bigger problems - calling a funeral home, or just dealing with the grief.

No, I expected you to text him with “hey mate, haven’t heard from you in a bit, hope everything is as good as can be”

And given what he is going through, don’t send him “goofy” texts…

You’re still blaming a website for your lack of social intelligence. And insulting me for pointing it out to you.